{"id":2466,"date":"2010-07-10T14:14:17","date_gmt":"2010-07-10T14:14:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/index.php\/2010\/07\/10\/sur-lantagonisme-des-sexes\/"},"modified":"2010-07-10T14:14:17","modified_gmt":"2010-07-10T14:14:17","slug":"sur-lantagonisme-des-sexes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/index.php\/2010\/07\/10\/sur-lantagonisme-des-sexes\/","title":{"rendered":"Sur l\u2019antagonisme des&nbsp;sexes"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"pdfprnt-buttons pdfprnt-buttons-post pdfprnt-top-right\"><a href=\"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2466?print=pdf\" class=\"pdfprnt-button pdfprnt-button-pdf\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/wp-content\/plugins\/pdf-print\/images\/pdf.png\" alt=\"image_pdf\" title=\"Afficher le PDF\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2466?print=print\" class=\"pdfprnt-button pdfprnt-button-print\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/wp-content\/plugins\/pdf-print\/images\/print.png\" alt=\"image_print\" title=\"Contenu imprim\u00e9\"><\/a><\/div><p>Les sexes ne se sont jamais com\u00adpris. Ils sont sem\u00adblables \u00e0 deux races r\u00e9unies dans une ten\u00adta\u00adtive sin\u00adc\u00e8re de vie com\u00admune et d\u2019har\u00admo\u00adnie, mais si in\u00e9vi\u00adta\u00adble\u00adment dif\u00adf\u00e9\u00adrentes en ce qui concerne les points de vue et les tem\u00adp\u00e9\u00adra\u00adments qu\u2019une com\u00adpr\u00e9\u00adhen\u00adsion r\u00e9elle est impos\u00adsible. Les hommes com\u00adprennent assez bien les hommes, les femmes com\u00adprennent assez bien les femmes, mais quand la ques\u00adtion se pose pour les hommes de com\u00adprendre les femmes ou vice-ver\u00adsa, il se pro\u00adduit les mal\u00aden\u00adten\u00addus les plus \u00e9tranges, les erreurs les plus gros\u00adsi\u00e8res et cha\u00adcun s\u2019en prend \u00e0 la stu\u00adpi\u00addi\u00adt\u00e9 de l\u2019autre. Les hommes \u00ab&nbsp;eff\u00e9\u00admi\u00adn\u00e9s&nbsp;\u00bb com\u00adprennent les femmes mieux que les autres et les femmes \u00ab&nbsp;mas\u00adcu\u00adlines&nbsp;\u00bb com\u00adprennent mieux les hommes que leurs s\u0153urs, mais ce que ces types sp\u00e9\u00adciaux gagnent d\u2019un c\u00f4t\u00e9, ils le perdent de l\u2019autre par un manque \u00e9gal de com\u00adpr\u00e9\u00adhen\u00adsion des per\u00adsonnes les plus carac\u00adt\u00e9\u00adris\u00adtiques de  leur&nbsp;sexe.<\/p>\n<p>\tL\u2019i\u00adn\u00e9\u00advi\u00adtable conclu\u00adsion est que la dif\u00adf\u00e9\u00adren\u00adcia\u00adtion sexuelle cr\u00e9e une dif\u00adf\u00e9\u00adrence d\u2019\u00e2me. Dans leur \u00e9tat d\u2019\u00eatre actuel, les sexes ont des men\u00adta\u00adli\u00adt\u00e9s dis\u00adsem\u00adblables, dis\u00adtinctes. Avant la puber\u00adt\u00e9, la diver\u00adgence semble moins grande&nbsp;; apr\u00e8s l\u2019\u00e2ge cri\u00adtique, elle dimi\u00adnue \u00e9ga\u00adle\u00adment&nbsp;; mais \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9\u00adpoque de la pleine flo\u00adrai\u00adson sexuelle, ils semblent \u00eatre aux p\u00f4les l\u2019un de l\u2019autre.<\/p>\n<p>\tPeut-\u00eatre cette diver\u00adgence et cet \u00e9loi\u00adgne\u00adment sont-ils n\u00e9ces\u00adsaires pour pro\u00advo\u00adquer la recherche pas\u00adsion\u00adn\u00e9e, l\u2019u\u00adnion sexuelle&nbsp;? \u00c0 preuve ce d\u00e9sir violent de r\u00e9con\u00adci\u00adlia\u00adtion et de r\u00e9union qui suit une que\u00adrelle ou une dis\u00adcus\u00adsion, met\u00adtant plus encore en relief l\u2019in\u00adcom\u00adpa\u00adti\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adt\u00e9 inn\u00e9e des sexes. Ceux qui s\u2019aiment \u00e0 la folie ne sont-ils pas ordi\u00adnai\u00adre\u00adment inaptes \u00e0 vivre en bonne intel\u00adli\u00adgence&nbsp;? Entre de v\u00e9ri\u00adtables \u00ab&nbsp;\u00e2mes-s\u0153urs&nbsp;\u00bb, s\u2019entre-com\u00adpre\u00adnant par\u00adfai\u00adte\u00adment, inci\u00adt\u00e9es natu\u00adrel\u00adle\u00adment vers la m\u00eame vie, il existe \u00e0 peine l\u2019at\u00adtrac\u00adtion sexuelle vou\u00adlue pour ne pas rendre mono\u00adtone la vie com\u00admune&nbsp;: il n\u2019existe pas de pas\u00adsion d\u00e9lirante.<\/p>\n<p>\tLes sexes demeurent des mys\u00adt\u00e8res l\u2019un \u00e0 l\u2019autre, mais des mys\u00adt\u00e8res s\u2019at\u00adti\u00adrant mutuel\u00adle\u00adment. O\u00f9 manque le mys\u00adt\u00e8re peut aus\u00adsi man\u00adquer l\u2019at\u00adtrac\u00adtion. Ils sont plus rap\u00adpro\u00adch\u00e9s et se comprennent<br>\ndavan\u00adtage lors\u00adqu\u2019ils s\u2019u\u00adnissent dans la caresse et le mys\u00adt\u00e8re silen\u00adcieux et tendre de l\u2019acte sexuel. Mais s\u2019ils tentent de s\u2019ex\u00adpli\u00adquer ver\u00adba\u00adle\u00adment, alors se pr\u00e9\u00adsentent les ab\u00eemes inson\u00addables et les&nbsp;pics<br>\ninac\u00adces\u00adsibles. Cepen\u00addant, se mon\u00adtrer l\u2019un \u00e0 l\u2019autre tel que, c\u2019est ce qui pro\u00adfite et r\u00e9unit le plus. S\u2019a\u00adban\u00addon\u00adner au d\u00e9ses\u00adpoir, au d\u00e9dain, \u00e0 l\u2019in\u00addif\u00adf\u00e9\u00adrence conduit tout sim\u00adple\u00adment \u00e0 la s\u00e9pa\u00adra\u00adtion\u200a\u2014\u200acar les sexes ne s\u2019in\u00adt\u00e9\u00adressent l\u2019un \u00e0 l\u2019autre que dans la mesure o\u00f9 ils s\u2019ef\u00adforcent de se com\u00adprendre. Dire que l\u2019on s\u2019ai\u00adme\u00adra sans cher\u00adcher \u00e0 se com\u00adprendre signi\u00adfie que si l\u2019on se com\u00adpre\u00adnait, l\u2019a\u00admour dis\u00adpa\u00adra\u00ee\u00adtrait. C\u2019est un para\u00addoxe, mais c\u2019est pour\u00adtant la v\u00e9rit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>J. William Lloyd<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Les sexes ne se sont jamais com\u00adpris. Ils sont sem\u00adblables \u00e0 deux races r\u00e9unies dans une ten\u00adta\u00adtive sin\u00adc\u00e8re de vie com\u00admune et d\u2019har\u00admo\u00adnie, mais si in\u00e9vi\u00adta\u00adble\u00adment dif\u00adf\u00e9\u00adrentes en ce qui concerne les points de vue et les tem\u00adp\u00e9\u00adra\u00adments qu\u2019une com\u00adpr\u00e9\u00adhen\u00adsion r\u00e9elle est impos\u00adsible. Les hommes com\u00adprennent assez bien les hommes, les femmes com\u00adprennent assez&nbsp;bien&nbsp;[\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[109],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[540],"class_list":["post-2466","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-lunique-na12-juillet-1946"],"authors":[{"term_id":540,"user_id":1,"is_guest":0,"slug":"admin_3gikpwyf","display_name":"Vincent Dubuc","avatar_url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/d015720652c25fd2ced191ade86430094e1f288a17483713e3b34d26dea52507?s=96&d=mm&r=g","author_category":"","user_url":"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net","last_name":"Dubuc","first_name":"Vincent","job_title":"","description":""}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2466","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2466"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2466\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2466"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2466"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2466"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/la-presse-anarchiste.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=2466"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}